Nothing better than being a woman and being called argumentative. I can assure you that if I were a man, the label would be assertive. So threatening that a woman has her own mind, viewpoints, speaks up and respects herself. But that’s called arrogance for a woman and confidence for a man. These double standards are exactly why I support the non binary movement. Gender stereotypes suck.
Retaliating against me because I don’t want to be intimate with you is gross. I get to say no, deal with it. We don’t judge here but we also don’t support disrespecting consent either.
Bullying, harassment, spreading rumors to harm and gain power, expecting empathy while being cruel back, weaponizing people’s journeys and weaknesses, yeah… I have a whole list of things I won’t tolerate. And I don’t care if it makes me unpopular.
I’m not here to judge or belittle anyone but. I do have personal standards and expectations for behavior and how I treat others/want to be treated. I won’t entertain half truths and warped realities. I’m interested in grown ups who take accountability for their behavior, who have their own mind and won’t be easily swayed, who are willing to forgive and grow and stop acting self righteous and flawless (people are not supposed to be perfect). I love folks who own their sh*t , it’s hot as hell, not to mention emotional maturity, empathy, patience, open mindedness, consideration….yes, yes, yes please!
Now that we have this covered…I will introduce myself. Hi I’m Lilith. I love the goddess Lilith and what she represents; standing up against a god who tried to control and punish her wrongfully. I also the love dragons. Both symbols of fierceness, nurturing, loyalty, etc. Both misunderstood and shamed.
I’m demisexual, sapiosexual and I love art. I prefer discovery and uniqueness. I believe intimacy comes from creating trust over time and consideration for others. This usually means self awareness and reflection. I am not one to spread rumors or jump on a smear campaign. If you have issues with me, come directly to me and let’s work it out like adults. I believe being able to disagree is healthy and can create intimacy. I use my block button accordingly. If you want respect then be respectful, simple.
I am a switch leaning Domme. My life is pretty demanding so I prefer partners that are patient and go slow. I like deep thinking, natures and kindness over niceness. My preferences and interests will be revealed more with trust. Risk assessment and kink knowledge is a must
